Why am i not pregnant yet?

Me and my partner have now been trying for a baby for 14 months.

We are both 24, healthy weights, eat healthy, have both been to the docs, I had the normal blood tests which showed that I am ovulating OK, and he had a sperm analysis, which also came back normal.

I take evening primrose, and multi vits, and my partner has been taking zinc tablets too.

We baby dance every other day, so timing is OK, im sure. I make sure to prop a pillow under me, and lay still for about half hour after.

I have been pregnant before (about 3 years ago) but we had a termination, as the time was not right.

We are ready now, and its not happening? Ive been told a million times 'maybe its just not the time'....

Why am i not pregnant yet?
Im so sorry...I too have been trying for almost a year and I know how fustrating it is...but hang in there! Several friends of mine were also trying for over a year and it finally happened for them when they stopped stressing about it and just kind forgot about trying so hard...Im trying to do the same but I know its hard, hopefully it will happen soon (for both of us! ) Anyway dont get down in the dumps and good luck!!
Reply:i think it is just a normal thing, follow the ovalution cycle %26amp; watch,don't worry for termination ,it is also very normal thing,it does not make any difference.
Reply:I assume by termination you mean abortion. I had my daughter and less than a year later I was pregnant again. I terminated the pregnancy and never conceived again. Act of God.
Reply:Honey! I'm sure your Dr. said relax and I repeat Relax. You stressing over this .I can feel it coming from your posting. This isn't helping at all, infact it could be the reason you haven't conceived. Stress or obsessing can produce hormones you don't want, when you're trying to conceive. You'll have your baby when it's supposed to be conceived. Not before or after.You maybe ready now. But maybe patience and working issues through together is what your supposed to learn now, before you conceive. You do have a Baby coming in your future 1-2yrs. but if you let this obsessing get out of hand, then your Relationship with your husband will suffer. So Honey! chill! meditate get your mind on other things. Get involved in other things. Let the Universe take control.

Good Luck.
Reply:you must check if the sperm can reach the vagina, i suggest you try having the penis into the vagina then you can get a baby. do not put anything to prevent it from happening
Reply:Maybe baby dancing too often. Try abstaining a week before the week before ovulation. I presume you're doing basal temperatures and mucus checks to know when you're ovulating.

You can do all this stuff and then it just happens when you're least expecting.

Good luck!
Reply:You are trying to hard. That's why.
Reply:Don't listen to the BS of "maybe its not the right time" thats crap. I have been ttc for 3 years ((36 months)). It sucks, and I have had all the tests done also. But maybe your body just needs a "kick start". So why not look into some natural fertility "drugs". You can find them online and order them. I don't know if they work, as I have never used them. Hang In There!
Reply:Stop trying so hard.... it will happen, trust me. Just enjoy life together and take life as it comes.... do not try to conceive.... just go unprotected because you feel you are ready and whatever happens will happen.
Reply:visit a doctor and tell her/him about this. they will surely help you!
Reply:my fiance and I are trying to. just try to relax and have fun with it. goodluck and babydust!
Reply:Maybe you should buy ovulation tests or monitor your cervical mucas to see when you are ovulating and increase your chances of pregnancy and once you know you are ovulating get down to the baby dance, more importantly try and relax and not think about getting pregnant, have some fun, maybe your trying too hard, get massage oil and get him to rub it on you or buy some sexy underwear so you both aren't thinking baby machine baby machine. Have fun and hopefully it will come naturally
Reply:that's a tough one. You should probably go see a specialist so they can run more tests or something.